Will You Find Time to Blog in 2011 in Unexpected Places?



angry girlYou want to blog more. You really do.

Maybe it’s even one of your goals for 2011. But it’s tough when every available chunk of time in your day is spoken for.

Have you ever wondered if a few minutes here and there could add up—if you could just find them?

When my daughter Kelly was 11, the jeans style was big and ugly.

You know, the kind with the legs 10 times too long, so they had to roll up the hems on each leg, like 8 times, to wear them?

I was teaching English to southeast Asian refugee kids by day and spoon feeding tender phrases—”thank you,” “does this bus go downtown?”, “where is the rice noodle aisle?”—to their parents in night school.

I was a single parent and money was tight.  In my spare time, I submitted articles to magazines. But I wasn’t finding a lot of time to write.

I would stand in Kelly’s bedroom doorway and say, ” You need to unroll the legs of these jeans before you throw them in the laundry basket.”

To which she would say, “Oh, yeah. I forgot.”

And she would say it the next time. And the next time. And the next time.

I was talking to the wall.

I needed just one good idea. Something to say that would get her attention, grab her by the collar.

One day it came to me. I would write her a letter and slip it under her bedroom door. Maybe she just didn’t know that doing a small thing like unrolling the hems on the legs of her jeans would help so much.

I wrote:

Dear Kelly,

I have been washing your jeans for the past year.

Each time I do, I have to unroll the hems of the legs. This takes me—let’s see—approximately 8 seconds per leg, and 16 seconds for both legs. So that’s 16 seconds every time I wash a pair of your jeans.

You have three pair of jeans and I wash them three times a week, so 16 seconds x 3, that’s 48 seconds a week I spend unrolling the hems of one pair of your jeans —144 seconds for all three.

In one year, that’s more than 124 minutes. You are 11, so I have 7 more years of washing your jeans. That makes close to 14 and a half hours of my time, just unrolling the hems of your jeans.

With an extra 14 hours, I could write 5  1,000-word articles, and I—we—would get an extra $2,500.

I could take 14 more bubble baths.

I could read at least 4 novels. Heck—I could write the first 4 chapters of my own novel.

All this I could do if you just did this one thing for me. How about it?

Love,

Mom

In typical pre-teen fashion, she just rolled her eyes.

“You are so weird,” she said.

It didn’t work. What can I say? She was an 11-year-old.

But today, as I construct my writing goals for 2011, I remember those jeans and all that time wasted. Because tiny pieces of time can add up and, spent in the right way, could bring something marvelous by the end of the year.

At our own house, we’ve been looking at time wasters.  We decided to pull the plug on cable. And now, between no more mindless watching of stale sitcoms and cutting back on my nightly reading (from 2 hours to 1), I’ll have at least 2 more hours to work with—every day.

With 2 hours of writing a day, I can finish my book by the end of the year!

Are you discounting your available time—for writing those extra blog posts, for starting your book, for whatever—because you don’t see those minutes?

Where do those little pockets of time exist for you that could be used to propel your blog and your business to great heights in the new year?

What would you do in 2011 with an unexpected gift of time?

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G'Day Judy,
Just couldn't resist. Years ago I had three gorgeous little girls whom I was besotted by. A dear friend said , "Leon, they'll grow up tp be teenage daughters y'know." They did......Now i have grandchildren the eldest of which is a teenage granddaughter!

Wasn't it T.S. Eliot who wrote, "The wheel will turn and still be forever still." I never quite understood that quote but it sounds so profound.

Any way....to get more time, forget time management. Concentrate on setting priorities. You'll never ever have enough time to do anything until you decide what it is that's important to you.

That's my ten cents worth. Make sure you have fun.

Regards

Leon

Ah, so you know the ways of the teenager then. Having had three girls, you likely know way more than I do. : )

You are going to have me pondering that T.S. Eliot quote all day. And, yes, we do make time for the important things. You are right about that. It just struck me how much time we waste doing the mundane, like unrolling the legs of jeans.

Thanks for adding to the conversation. Always good to hear from you.

Judy, I had some jeans like that, I remember! I've found there are things I told my son years ago that he now, as a dad, is remembering. There is hope.

I created an editorial calendar to keep up with all of my writing and blogging. It all sort of crept up on me. Plus, one needs to allocate time to respond to comments - something I am working on getting better at. When one is on the road a lot, as I am - I often see something and plan to respond later - alas, it doesn't always happen.

New changes in 2011 should help with that. For now, I treasure any ten or twenty-minute time slot I can write in. I'm also working on creative solutions, such as a guest blogger spot.

PS - I am writing at this moment from a table at a Starbucks in West Seattle.

Keep your observations coming - I sure enjoy reading them.

Okay, Lori. Now you're making me feel really old. : )

I think it's when your kids have kids of their own that they understand their parents' 'whinings' better.

Good on you for creating that editorial calendar. That is going to be such a helpful tool for you. With the amount of traveling you do, that has to be a huge challenge. And, yes, I''ll bet you've gotten very good at grabbing 5- and 10-minute chunks of time when you can.

Thanks for your thoughtful response.

Hey Judy,

I gave up TV a few years ago - don't miss it a bit. Unfortunately, the internet and that unquenchable thirst for new knowledge has taken over the "extra" time and more. One of my intentions this year is to start clawing back some of that time. Because I want to write more.

I've noticed that the minute I start to feel a bit stuck with the writing, I distract myself by going on Twitter. I tell myself it will only be for a minute or two - just a quick break. Several interesting articles later, I realize I've wasted 45 minutes (or more).

So. Thing one this year will be to write first and read second. And thing two: to stop doing laundry. I'm pretty sure I have more underwear than Joe, so he'll break down and do it first. ;)

Patty,

I know! I thought I would go through withdrawal but never even think about TV anymore. It was really getting useless at the end, anyway.

I am exactly like you when it comes to Internet and social media. I could read forever. but then I'm always reading other people's stuff and not writing my own. I am taking back my life this year and reserving some sacred time for my writing. I'm thinking reading should be my reward for writing, not the other way around. : )

And on the washing of the underwear? I think you should go on strike. I tried that with replacing the toilet paper on the roll, but it was a standoff and I lost that one. : )

This has really given me food for thought, thanks! I'm going to do a review of my time and see which bits I can take back for my own ends!

Blogging more is on my 2011 goal list along with other things that take time. You've made a good point about time wasters...tv and internet are my big downfalls. Now I'm going to go add to my goal list...what I want to do more of and how much time I will commit to each item as well as what time wasting activities I will limit.

I was really hoping the letter to your 11 year old worked! My 9 and 11 year old children are constantly putting jeans in the wash that are bunched up and inside out. It drives me crazy. ;)

Kelly,

Nice to see you here. I interviewed you some time back for a Business Report article I was writing, if I recall.

This is a great time to be thinking about time issues, as this year winds down. For me, I was just amazed at how much time became available to me after I eliminated the unnecessary. Best of luck with your blogging goals.

And, yes, I was proud of my somewhat creative attempt to get my daughter's attention. But, as with most kids, getting their attention and getting them to change their behavior are two different things. : )

Great article - I love the idea of a note to your 11 year-old and smiled at her "You're so weird" comment. Hehehe.

I am one of those people who loses hours reading amazing new websites and blogs for inspiration - this is one of them (also just found your Cats Eye Writers blog - want to have a good dig around there too!).

To make every minute count, I make sure that for every new website I find that I love, I do at least one post before I allow myself to go searching anywhere else! Sort of works.... but then I've already been on your blog today, and now this one but I haven't written my promised new post.... Better go and get writing!

Think I'll start with a note to my husband about turning his socks the right way round before putting them in the wash - that would save me a few hours every year! ;o)

Lucy,

Ha! Glad I inspired you to write a note to your husband. : )

I'm right there with you on the website/blog exploring issue. I think, if I'm not careful, it could gobble up the time I used to spend watching TV. Add a hankering for absorbing new information and you have a recipe for trouble. I'm telling myself that since the time I "found" was part of the evening, I'll write extra blog posts and work on my book during that time, the evening hours. We'll see how my little experiment goes.

Thanks for sharing and good luck with those socks. : )

G'Day Judy,
Just couldn't resist. Years ago I had three gorgeous little girls whom I was besotted by. A dear friend said , "Leon, they'll grow up tp be teenage daughters y'know." They did......Now i have grandchildren the eldest of which is a teenage granddaughter!

Wasn't it T.S. Eliot who wrote, "The wheel will turn and still be forever still." I never quite understood that quote but it sounds so profound.

Any way....to get more time, forget time management. Concentrate on setting priorities. You'll never ever have enough time to do anything until you decide what it is that's important to you.

That's my ten cents worth. Make sure you have fun.

Regards

Leon

Ah, so you know the ways of the teenager then. Having had three girls, you likely know way more than I do. : )

You are going to have me pondering that T.S. Eliot quote all day. And, yes, we do make time for the important things. You are right about that. It just struck me how much time we waste doing the mundane, like unrolling the legs of jeans.

Thanks for adding to the conversation. Always good to hear from you.

Judy, I had some jeans like that, I remember! I've found there are things I told my son years ago that he now, as a dad, is remembering. There is hope.

I created an editorial calendar to keep up with all of my writing and blogging. It all sort of crept up on me. Plus, one needs to allocate time to respond to comments - something I am working on getting better at. When one is on the road a lot, as I am - I often see something and plan to respond later - alas, it doesn't always happen.

New changes in 2011 should help with that. For now, I treasure any ten or twenty-minute time slot I can write in. I'm also working on creative solutions, such as a guest blogger spot.

PS - I am writing at this moment from a table at a Starbucks in West Seattle.

Keep your observations coming - I sure enjoy reading them.

Okay, Lori. Now you're making me feel really old. : )

I think it's when your kids have kids of their own that they understand their parents' 'whinings' better.

Good on you for creating that editorial calendar. That is going to be such a helpful tool for you. With the amount of traveling you do, that has to be a huge challenge. And, yes, I''ll bet you've gotten very good at grabbing 5- and 10-minute chunks of time when you can.

Thanks for your thoughtful response.

Judy - you have a gift for making an important point out of an everyday situation. I love your note to your daughter. I thought: hmm, she's trying to Enroll her daughter to Unroll her jeans! I liked your selling points. Perhaps she was too 11-ish to see any other points of view.

I haven't watched tv in years. Sometimes I wonder if I'll miss some essential aspect of popular culture and become obsolete. Based on the time I spend exploring the internet and reading books, I'm only in danger of not getting my own writing done.

Thanks for the reminder to live in the present so that we can use each extra minute towards something we love to do.

Barbara,

Yes. She was too 11-ish. (Smiling.)

I thought Bob and I were rare exceptions. But I'm hearing from more people that they've stopped watching TV. And many of them, like you and me) have replaced it with the Internet. At least, it's more educational. : )

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Barbara,

Yes. She was too 11-ish. (Smiling.)

I thought Bob and I were rare exceptions. But I'm hearing from more people that they've stopped watching TV. And many of them, like you and me) have replaced it with the Internet. At least, it's more educational. : )

Thanks for sharing your thoughts.

Hey Judy,

I gave up TV a few years ago - don't miss it a bit. Unfortunately, the internet and that unquenchable thirst for new knowledge has taken over the "extra" time and more. One of my intentions this year is to start clawing back some of that time. Because I want to write more.

I've noticed that the minute I start to feel a bit stuck with the writing, I distract myself by going on Twitter. I tell myself it will only be for a minute or two - just a quick break. Several interesting articles later, I realize I've wasted 45 minutes (or more).

So. Thing one this year will be to write first and read second. And thing two: to stop doing laundry. I'm pretty sure I have more underwear than Joe, so he'll break down and do it first. ;)

Patty,

I know! I thought I would go through withdrawal but never even think about TV anymore. It was really getting useless at the end, anyway.

I am exactly like you when it comes to Internet and social media. I could read forever. but then I'm always reading other people's stuff and not writing my own. I am taking back my life this year and reserving some sacred time for my writing. I'm thinking reading should be my reward for writing, not the other way around. : )

And on the washing of the underwear? I think you should go on strike. I tried that with replacing the toilet paper on the roll, but it was a standoff and I lost that one. : )

As I read your post Dear Judy I yet again find myself wandering off in utter enjoyment. I have been lauging outloud for about 148 seconds now. Your cerativity and innovation as a mother translates into your everyday life and writing. I thank you for sharing that brilliant story with us. I am even more thankful that you saved it after all these years!!

Our children teach us some of life's most interesting and fun-filled lessons, don't they?

Now the coach in me wants to say...What about giving up time with the husband and your marvelous books supports your energy and creativity? (You know me, I had to ask.) As you add more time in your already full day to WORK, please remember your exquisite self-care and take time to enjoy one of those bubble baths you mentioned to Kelly all those years ago. :)

And on the business side. thank you for calling my attention to getting back to diagnosing my own Time Wasters. i know the value in blowing those little suckers up and out of the schedule. I am on it this first week of the New Year!

Tammy,

148 seconds of laughing, huh? That's pretty good. : )

Sometimes we save those notes, like the one in my photo album from Kelly that says:

Dear Mom,

I have gone to 7-11 because I haven't had candy in a long time.

Love,

Kelly

Thanks for the reminder. Self-care is SO important. And the bubble baths will return to my schedule. : )

Tammy,

148 seconds of laughing, huh? That's pretty good. : )

Sometimes we save those notes, like the one in my photo album from Kelly that says:

Dear Mom,

I have gone to 7-11 because I haven't had candy in a long time.

Love,

Kelly

Thanks for the reminder. Self-care is SO important. And the bubble baths will return to my schedule. : )

This has really given me food for thought, thanks! I'm going to do a review of my time and see which bits I can take back for my own ends!

Amie.

Yes, those "time audits" can be eye-opening. Good luck carving out time in 2011 do do the things most important to you!

Hello hello! I love your article and it's soo true. Instead of complaining of not having enough time (I'm quite guilty of that!), I just need to make sure I use my time properly in the first place. You can lose a lot of time doing vague things. I call them vague, because when you look back, you don't really know what you were doing haha.

You're letter to your daughter was genius! I stared like this :|...when I read the total amount of time you could save!

Thanks so much for sharing!

Take care,
TJ

TJ,

Thanks for reading. I was amazed at how much time I was wasting—and on such silly things. Or "vague things," as you say. : )

I thought my clever letter would do the trick, but, it didn't have the impact I'd hoped for. Best of luck in 2011 in finding time to do the things you want to do.

TJ,

Thanks for reading. I was amazed at how much time I was wasting—and on such silly things. Or "vague things," as you say. : )

I thought my clever letter would do the trick, but, it didn't have the impact I'd hoped for. Best of luck in 2011 in finding time to do the things you want to do.

Blogging more is on my 2011 goal list along with other things that take time. You've made a good point about time wasters...tv and internet are my big downfalls. Now I'm going to go add to my goal list...what I want to do more of and how much time I will commit to each item as well as what time wasting activities I will limit.

I was really hoping the letter to your 11 year old worked! My 9 and 11 year old children are constantly putting jeans in the wash that are bunched up and inside out. It drives me crazy. ;)

Kelly,

Nice to see you here. I interviewed you some time back for a Business Report article I was writing, if I recall.

This is a great time to be thinking about time issues, as this year winds down. For me, I was just amazed at how much time became available to me after I eliminated the unnecessary. Best of luck with your blogging goals.

And, yes, I was proud of my somewhat creative attempt to get my daughter's attention. But, as with most kids, getting their attention and getting them to change their behavior are two different things. : )

Great article - I love the idea of a note to your 11 year-old and smiled at her "You're so weird" comment. Hehehe.

I am one of those people who loses hours reading amazing new websites and blogs for inspiration - this is one of them (also just found your Cats Eye Writers blog - want to have a good dig around there too!).

To make every minute count, I make sure that for every new website I find that I love, I do at least one post before I allow myself to go searching anywhere else! Sort of works.... but then I've already been on your blog today, and now this one but I haven't written my promised new post.... Better go and get writing!

Think I'll start with a note to my husband about turning his socks the right way round before putting them in the wash - that would save me a few hours every year! ;o)

Lucy,

Ha! Glad I inspired you to write a note to your husband. : )

I'm right there with you on the website/blog exploring issue. I think, if I'm not careful, it could gobble up the time I used to spend watching TV. Add a hankering for absorbing new information and you have a recipe for trouble. I'm telling myself that since the time I "found" was part of the evening, I'll write extra blog posts and work on my book during that time, the evening hours. We'll see how my little experiment goes.

Thanks for sharing and good luck with those socks. : )

I try to think of my time like this on a daily basis - when you dig down through all of your activities in the day, you do find these pockets of time that really do add up - that five minutes you spend at the gas station to pick up coffee (when you have coffee at work)? $1 plus 5 minutes each day - that's hours (and hundreds of dollars) each year - cut that little thing and out (and find others) and you've found more than enough time to work on the bigger projects.

Murlu,

Yes, cutting little things out can certainly make room. And I got rid of a huge distraction—TV—but can still do better on the web surfing. At the end, TV was just too boring and stupid to justify spending my time on.

But the Internet? It can be dangerous for people with an unquenchable curiosity. Always new stuff to explore and learn. : )

Thanks for sharing your experience with saving time (and money).

Murlu,

Yes, cutting little things out can certainly make room. And I got rid of a huge distraction—TV—but can still do better on the web surfing. At the end, TV was just too boring and stupid to justify spending my time on.

But the Internet? It can be dangerous for people with an unquenchable curiosity. Always new stuff to explore and learn. : )

Thanks for sharing your experience with saving time (and money).

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