The Long Goodbye

It’s that time of year again. The end of it. The time of year we look back over the triumphs and failures and say goodbye to what 2010 held for us. Maybe it was a great year, maybe it was a terrible year. Either way it’s time to say “Goodbye” to 2010 and “Hello” to 2011.

There’s a lot to be said about looking ahead, planning and setting resolutions during this time of year, but I’m not going to talk about that. I’m going to focus on the Goodbyes and teach you a technique I use when I write.

I hope it’s helpful to you, but if it isn’t, oh well. By the time we meet again it’ll be 2011. : )

The Long Goodbye

When you write, consider it a never-ending goodbye to your readers. That may seem morbid or terrible, but stick with me a moment longer and I’ll explain.

You can’t know everything that’s happening in your audience’s life, so you never know which post you write might be the last one someone reads from you. Every time you sit down to write, consider that it might be the last time you get to speak to your audience and put the amount of passion, power, wisdom and wit into it you would if you knew tomorrow was the last day it would be read.

Your blogging should be an endless stream of “Well, this is the best I’ve got” posts. An endless stream of last posts. Make sure your last impression is a memorable one.

Beyond Death

By now, a lot of you are probably thinking I live my life in a morbid haze of thoughts of death. That couldn’t be further from the truth. There are plenty of reasons why your next post might be your last, here are just a few:

  • Library Purge – I’ve done it and you probably have too. Every once and a while I go through and purge my Google Reader of things I don’t get any use out of anymore. What if you phone in the past few posts right before someone decides on a New Year’s RSS purge? Which babies are getting thrown out with the bath water? Your babies, that’s which ones.
  • Vacation – Have you ever gone away on vacation and when you get back just forgotten to pick back up where you left off on certain things? You’re not the only one who has done that. Make sure you’re writing posts that people want to read on their vacations, not the ones they forget when they get back.
  • Work – Certain times of the year work can get really, really hectic. In times like that, most people cut out anything that’s not vital to what they do and who they are. If you’re publishing stinky stinkeroos, you’re getting threshed with the rest of the life chaff.
  • You – Unless you’re Madame Trelawney you probably don’t know what tomorrow holds for you. You might get sick, you might get transferred to the North Pole or you might just lose Internet connection or hosting for a week or two. The point is, there might be reason why you can’t get to your blog and write. Do you really want the last post you wrote to be that grocery list and picture of your goldfish you emailed to your blog from your blackberry? I didn’t think so.

There can be a multitude of other reason that keep people from reading that awesome post you have lying around waiting for “the right time” and you never will be able to anticipate them.

The time to “Wow” me is now. The right time for that great post is right now.

Don’t wait. You might not get another chance.

But don’t take my word for it, what do you think?



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About Joey Strawn

Joey Strawn is a blogger, husband, entrepreneur, and general purveyor of awesomeness and currently blogs at JoeyStrawn.com. He is president of Empty Jar Marketing in Nashville, Tenn. and works with local and national businesses to increase exposure and brand using digital marketing strategies.

  • http://managingemployeepwedormance.com leon Noone

    G’Day Joey,
    You’ve done it again! What an insightful post. I’ve run a business for 32 tears and I thought that I’d heard most things.

    Now I have a new question for myself. “if this is the last word of mine a reader ever reads, what would I want them to take away?”

    Interestingly enough, I’ve been trying to create something at the end of my posts that would give the reader something very specific to do “on the job” as it were.

    I’m so old that I was an absolutely dedicated viewer of “Laugh In.” Joey, your idea is “very Interesting” indeed

    May 2011 realize your wildest possible positive expectations and, as we say here in Oz…..
    “avagoodweegend!”

    Regards

    Leon

    • http://joeystrawn.com Joey Strawn

      Thanks Leon, I’m glad you found the post interesting and helpful. This has been a tactic I’ve employed for a while and thought it might help our the For Bloggers, By Bloggers audience, so I figured I wouldn’t be stingy with it anymore.

      I wish the same for your 2011 and let us know if we can ever help you out around here.

      Cheers!

  • http://ensosites.com/blog/ Allen Rogers

    Hi Joey,
    Just discovered your blog today. This is an interesting post. I’ve never really thought about it this way. It’s true that people purge their RSS feeds (I do it), so you need to give them a reason to keep your blog in there every time (you never know when the “great purge” is going to occur. I subscribed to your RSS today. I hope you’ll check out my blog.

    Best regards,
    Allen

    • http://joeystrawn.com Joey Strawn

      Allen, I will definitely check out your blog and I hope you enjoy what I write in mine. If there’s anything I can ever help you with, please let me know.

      Cheers!

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  • http://blog.salvatierstudios.com Dennis Salvatier

    Great post. This reminds of what Stan Lee used to say about comics when he was still at Marvel. He, of course was the founder of Marvel Comics (spider-man, hulk, fantastic four) and he always said the reason every book had a recap of the last issue was because he believed every comic is someone’s very first comic. Very insightful. I actually just posted my last post of the year and would love for you to read it. http://blog.salvatierstudios.com/2010/12/3-things-that-made-difference-in-2010.html

    Thanks again!

    • http://joeystrawn.com Joey Strawn

      Thanks Dennis! i love Stan Lee and the story you wrote is a perfect semblance to what I’m talking about. Thanks for stopping by and I’ll definitely have to give your blog a peruse. I hope you were able to find some helpful stuff on here and hope you’ll stop back by.

      Cheers!

  • http://ariwriter.com Ari

    Does your library purge include the non-digital bookshelf as well, Joey? Do you peruse your physical books, and sell/donate/freecycle anything you haven’t read or picked up over the prior 12 months?

    • http://joeystrawn.com Joey Strawn

      You know, Ari, I have done that in the past with my physical books. I haven’t done it in a while and to be honest I’m much more likely to loan/donate/freecycle the business books that I have than the fiction ones. I’m a heavy reader and I usually find myself cycling back through the fiction books I own to read them again (like re-watching a good movie). Of the books I own I can honestly say I’ve read them each at least twice, sometimes more.

      When it comes to the business books there are some that I give away to others (Permission Marketing is one I’ve given away a few times) but then I end up re-buying them because I take extensive notes in helpful books like that and like to keep them for research and reference.

      Blog feeds are a little easier to purge because the Internet stores everything and I can always just re-subscribe if I find I’ve made a mistake. Also, the information in continual, so I find it more important to have a consistent stream of quality content.

      Sorry that was a super long answer, haha, but the short answer is “sometimes, but I’m more likely to do it with blogs.”

      Do you find yourself purging physical books you have?

      • http://ariwriter.com Ari

        Never apologies for speaking your mind, regardless of length.

        I downsized about 200 books this year, most given to the library for their semi-annual used book sale. Reading http://www.becomingminimalist.com/2010/08/09/breaking-the-sentimental-attachment-to-books/ opened my eyes to some thoughts that had jumbled around, especially the part about our tendency to hold onto books like trophies in a display case.

        • http://joeystrawn.com Joey Strawn

          Wow, 200 books. That’s intense. I’ve heard a lot lately about the rise in minimalist culture thinking, but hadn’t seen that site about it. Thanks for the link.

          I’ve been know to hang on to books in the past similar to trophies and guess I still do to an extent, but since I still read a lot of them over again I don’t have the same mindset I once did about it.

          I do love a good book though. : )

  • http://www.jayninelessons.com Jerry Nihen

    The Long Goodbye section is one of the most fantastic things I’ve ever scene in relation to blogging advice. It’s such a simple and easy to implement concept, but one that not many people think about. This article is fantastic.

    • http://joeystrawn.com Joey Strawn

      Jerry, thank you for you kind words. It means a lot to me that you found the post helpful and inspiring. Thanks for stopping by and I hope you’ll continue to get some blogging advice from us here.

      Have a great New Year’s Eve!