What I Wish I Knew the First Year About Networking and Community Building

Networking and communityRunning a blog is hard work.

There are two things I wish I would have known to do more readily from the start: community build and network.  I naively had a “build it and they will come mentality”.

And then, my life and other projects got in the way. It was not until 6 months into the site that I actually had the time to community build and network.

Community Building

I wasn’t even certain where to begin.  But, I saw the virtue in it after being led to some sites with great communities by John Falchetto.  If you want to see some great online communities in action take a look at Marcus Sheridan, Gini Dietrich or Danny Brown’s blogs. Read and then comment on one of their posts to see for yourself.

Make sure you choose to receive follow up comments.  Be aware, their posts draw hundreds of comments and may crash your inbox if you subscribe.

If you find a blogger you like, look to see whom they like or read.  Many a time, they will have a blog roll published on their website.

There is an ongoing debate online of which is better:  multiple followers that may not be loyal or lesser numbers that are true to you?  I would say it depends what you want to accomplish.  If you are branding yourself and building organically, then you want the few good followers.  If you are looking at purely list building then you may want many. I prefer the few good followers.

Network, Network and Network Some More

Choose your social media and then learn it.  For some people it is simply too much to be everywhere.  So then don’t be everywhere.  I have really liked twitter and Facebook and recently started cultivating my Linked in connections.  Once you have master 1-2 social media platforms then you can add others: Google + for example.

Marcus Sheridan wrote a brilliant post on the 5 essential levels of networking online.  Read it, save the link and then re-read it 6 months down the road.

For a nice list of the 20 most influential people in social media, read this recent post by Kristi Hines.  Follow some of these people listed and learn.

Twitter

If you don’t know where to start with twitter, start with Mark Schaeffer’s Tao of Twitter: A simple concise read that will put you on your way.  When people follow you, take the time to see who they are. If they are like-minded or in an area you are interested in then follow back.

Send them a direct message about what made you follow them.  If they like fried green tomatoes and are from Pataskala just like you then say so.  People with follow and unfollow at the drop of a hat more so if you don’t pay them attention.

Flirt a little bit as summarize by Krysia Hepatica in her recent guest post on Mark Schaefer’s blog, Grow.  I love how entertaining and ingenious Krysia’s post is, if only I could write more like this.

Lastly, appearance counts so jazz up your twitter page and or make a statement like Brankica.  She outlines exactly what she will do if you follow her.  Make your bio interesting.  Take a look at these clever bios collected by Mark Schaefer.

Add tweet old post plug in to your blog.  Tweet old post brought one of my articles: “Life in Doha” to the forefront and made me realize that I need to write a part two to this article.  It has received as many hits every month since I posted it as my most popularly commented articles.  The irony is that I wrote this article in 2005 for friends and family long before I had a blog.

Use something like Hootsuite to help you manage your social media.  Hootsuite allows me to view all of my SM on one page and post to all of them simultaneously as well as schedule posts!

Hootsuite analytics

Facebook

Create a Facebook fan page for your website/blog. If you don’t know how, then read this post by Brankica.  She will even teach you how to customize it here. She knows her stuff and I am continually impressed by her knowledge.

You can put up a static page that pretty much makes anyone like your page to get on.  Love that!

And recently the new timeline feature was introduced.  If you want tips on how to make this work for you, take a look at Kikolani’s post here.

Two sites to watch if you really want to cultivate your Facebook followers are Social Media Examiner or Brian Moran.  The former has great tips for all social media not only Facebook.  Brian is among the top when it comes to Facebook marketing.  He has over 85,000 followers on his websites fan page.

LinkedIn

The best tip I learned about networking on LinkedIn came from Stephanie Ward of Firefly Coaching.  In her post, she explains how to post not only to your connections but also to everyone in your groups “increasing your visibility by 1,000″.  This one tip has really caused my LinkedIn visibility to rock.  My website hits jumped by 20% in one week and sold me on the value of LinkedIn.

In this one short week, I have also connected with more like-minded individuals than on any other SM site.  Where else can I meet someone with my same name “Rika’ who is also studying functional medicine (she from a nutritional standpoint and me from a medical standpoint). 2 degrees of separation.

One tip for using her group sharing method, you cannot do this from HootSuite.  You need to manually enter the post onto LinkedIn and then follow the steps.  The share button simply is not visible when you post from HootSuite and then go to your LinkedIn profile.

Play in the Right Neighborhoods

If your niche is “auto body” then seek out the “auto body crowd”. I hadn’t really connected to as much of the medical community as I should have until I started using Linked in.  In my opinion, it is harder to blog if your niche isn’t Social Media, business, marketing or the like.  You have to stay on top of your niche as well as learn all of the above niches.

Exploring Google+

My next endeavor will be to explore Google+.  Kristi Hines wrote an article on where to begin and then the Social Media Examiner published  additional tips.  I have patiently been observing to see if this particular form of Social Media would disappear or take off.

One of the benefits I can see is that you can create a very small circle of just your close family and friends.  This takes care of the age-old question of how much do you share online?  You can share everything but be selective about who you share it with.

Your Turn

How about you – what have been your favorite tips for community building and networking?

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About Rajka Milanovic Galbraith

Rajka Milanovic Galbraith is an American Family Physician who is currently living and working abroad in Qatar. She launched her blog Expat Doctor Mom in 2010 to provide free health care guidance to anyone anywhere.

  • http://live-your-love.com/ Brankica

    Hey Rajka, thanks so much for the mentions here. I really appreciate it :) You had the luck to learn from Danny, Gini, Marcus, John and the rest of the gang, I know many who learned from the wrong people.

    I think the biggest problem for all of us is the information overload and once we learn how to filter the info it gets much easier. Congrats on being featured here :)

    • http://dannybrown.me/ DannyBrown

      @Brankica Oh, I think we all learn a good amount from you too, miss, no worries there. :)

      • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

        Agreed Danny, I think we all learn a lot from Brankica! Thanks for the congrats Brankica, it is an honor indeed! @DannyBrown @Brankica

        • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

          PS Brankica you are right, I have gotten to where I am because I only learned from the best which was very lucky indeed! Thanks for all you do! @DannyBrown @Brankica

  • StephanieWard

    What a fabuous post Rajka, I’m sure it will help a lot of people who are just get started as well as those who have been around for some time. Many thanks for the mention, much appreciated!

    • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

      You are most welcome. But I should be thanking you! Your single tip skyrocketed my visibility. Not to mention I just applied for a potential position because of it! To clarify, the percentage increase was 20% after the first week but that number continues to rise week after week :) And my position as an expert in my field etc is strengthened. But to the newbie, they will have to pick and choose what works for them!@StephanieWard

      • StephanieWard

        Wow, that’s fantastic Rajka! Wishing you all the best.

        • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

          Thanks Stephanie! @StephanieWard

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  • http://writinghappiness.com/ Marya | Writing Happiness

    Hi Rajka, what a fab post and equally fab timing. I have been wishing lately for a post such as yours, which would be a guide for the social media novice. Yours is an excellent one, and ditto what you said about Danny, Brankica and others. I have indeed fallen into great company. :)

    Marya

    • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

      Thanks Marya! We are indeed lucky! There are so many people out to sell, sell sell to anyone online but the ones who also teach I admire the most!

      Just had a look at your site: NICE, very nice indeed. Just subscribed via RSS. To writing and networking!@Marya | Writing Happiness

      • http://writinghappiness.com/ Marya | Writing Happiness

        @ExpatDoctorMom

        Hey Rajka. Wow, that was a surprise – thanks very much for making me feel like a million bucks :) Looking forward to getting to know you better too … cheers

  • http://www.TheSalesLion.com/ Marcus_Sheridan

    Rajka, it’s amazing how reading your journey reminded me so much of the things I went through my first year. Heck, many I’m still going through!

    This whole blogging thing isn’t easy. I really don’t think most folks know just how much work is required to have a successful blog, especially in a broad industry, in 2011.

    But you’ve obviously made huge improvements, learned a ton, and are looking forward to more Rajka. You rock for that and it’s something 99% never do.

    Keep smiling and being great,

    Marcus

    • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

      Thanks for your kind words and compliments, Marcus! They mean a lot coming from you!

      Here’s is to continual learning and improvement! @Marcus_Sheridan

  • ginidietrich

    There is so much to learn about blogging and I really believe you’ll never get it all if you don’t do it yourself. This is especially important if you’re in an industry where you’re creating messages for external audiences (marketing, communication, advertising).

    I wish I’d had this blog post when I started. It certainly would have saved a lot of time and energy of trying to figure it out on my own. VERY nice resource for new bloggers!

    • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

      My dear Gini, great to see you here! And thanks for the compliment on the post means a lot! Happy Friday! @ginidietrich

  • http://www.slymarketing.com jens

    It took me years to understand what you’re describing. I started blogging without even thinking about commenting on other blogs or networking with other people. It didn’t work out at all, but then I started following people like @Marcus_Sheridan and @Brankica and I discovered what I needed to do. I finally started to understand what it’s like to build a community. And that building a community is really a win-win situation, since you’re learning a lot from them, and you start writing for them in order to teach them what you know.

    I still haven’t created a Facebook Page for my blog/community, and that’s something I really should be doing. I have thought about it for a long time, and the only reason why I haven’t done it is that I’m a little sceptical about how much time it will take me to keep adding content and participating in the conversations. But, I guess I should listen to Nike, and just do it :)

    • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

      Hi Jens! Thanks for commenting! I have felt very naive about this whole process and feel like it is coming together a bit.

      I have seen you around and have been meaning to add you… So I have “Just done it!” via RSS, twitter, FB and Linked In. Look forward to your posts!@jens

      • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

        PS as you have such a nice following on twitter, maybe that is your thing? And then no need to do a FB fan page! @jens

  • FrankDickinson

    Wow Rajka – what a great, resource filled post here on the great FBBB! I have a couple sites/posts marked up for reading this weekend – especially about Linkedin where I need some definite help.

    I’m glad you are enjoying and getting some good results with Tweet Old Post – it’s a plugin that I simply love!

    Great stuff here my friend!

    • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

      Thanks Frank! Enjoy learning Linked In a bit more! I am in almost 40 groups of a variety of categories and it has really been great for networking! Linked In replaced FB as a source of referrals to my site at #4 with Google organic #1 and Direct referral #2.

      Enjoy your weekend!
      @FrankDickinson

  • http://www.freelancewritingblog.com/ Ruth – The Freelance Writing Blog

    I’m about 3 months in as a blogger, so this is a timely post. I’m bookmarking, as I suspect that I’ll be exploring all of these links and resources in the coming months! Thanks for consolidating such useful information all in one place.

    • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

      Ruth, You are most welcome. I was a bit hopeless when I began and really waited to long to get started (6 months!) on the networking. I hope the links are as useful for you as they were me! @Ruth – The Freelance Writing Blog

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    Wow! Such great information all in one post! Thanks

  • http://www.seattleweddingofficiants.com ElaineMWay

    Wow! Such great information. And all in one post! Thank you.

    • http://expatdoctormom.com/ ExpatDoctorMom

      You are very welcome Elaine! I had so much info that a part two is coming soon on this site. Be on the look out! @ElaineMWay

  • Ramiz

    Thank you very much for the great post. It is big help for people like myself who are looking to push their Social Networking to the next step

    • http://expatdoctormom.com Expat Doctor Mom

      Dear Ramiz

      Glad you found it helpful. The volume of information out there when you are first starting out is overwhelming!

      Good luck on your journey!
      Rajka

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