Three Positive Questions To Keep You On Track as a Blogger



 

Blogging TipsThis whole blogging deal can get confusing at times. We start off like gang busters with a passion and purpose. We write. We share. We create. We even think we are doing exactly what we were called out of the depths to do.

Everything is pixie dust and unicorns. Beautiful. Exuberant. Near perfect.

…and then we wake up from the dream and realize that blogging is work. It takes focus, persistence and execution.

Been there? Enjoying the tee shirt?

I understand.

We could spend the rest of this blog post talking about the negative reasons why this happens.

It’s Friday and who needs to go into the weekend with a load of negative stuff? What say we focus on:

Three Positive Questions To Keep You On Track as a Blogger.

1. Why are you blogger?

Many will tell you that you need to know who you are writing for first. Bullocks.

If you don’t understand why you are blogging right off the bat – you will not have the gas in your engine to get started, keep running and steer your way down the road.

Why is your fuel. It’s the fire in your belly.

Why are you blogging? Some considerations might be:

  • the need to be creative
  • the deisre to use your knowledge to help others
  • online journaling
  • making money

Can I ask you to please get and be clear on your why?

2. What is your preferred style of writing?

Your style, tone, manner or voice is the “what” of your positive questions that you need to ask. In my estimation, many bloggers go awry or stop altogether because they never access the voice that they already have within them.

Is your voice:

  • conversational
  • instructional
  • controversial
  • thought provoking

or a combimation of these?

Here’s the real question.

Are you writing writing from a place within you or are you simply mimicking someone else? When I discovered that I had spent so much time reading others and then turning around and modeling their style, it was like taking a softball to the head.

If your why is your fuel – your what is the navigational beacons that guide your ship in the correct waters of your personal style.

Can I ask you to please stop imitating other bloggers and access your own voice?

3. Who is your target audience?

Finally we get to it. The “who” question.

We all must understand the peron we are writing for. Why? Because it helps us make connections and address needs. We want our blog to have an impact on our readers, but this cannot happen if we do not understand who they are, want they want and why they have chosen you to listen to.

Is your who:

  • other bloggers just like you
  • bloggers just getting started
  • bloggers in transition
  • non bloggers
  • business people
  • single moms
  • couples
  • individuals trying to make money online
  • those in need of inspiration
  • those in need of “how to’s”
  • prospective clients

or, again, a combination of these?

I’ll say it once again – knowing your who gives your blog impact and connection.

Impact and connection will take you a long way done the blogging road.

These are the questions that should be asked in times of reflection on your mission as a blogger.

What do you think/ When the waters have become a bit muddied, what things have you done to gain direction? How has your blogging changed over time? What ideas can you share?

I look forward to the conversation below.

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Ruth - The Freelance Writing Blog 28 pts

Sheesh, talk about taking the wind out of my sails! I started blogging just a few weeks ago (though I've been writing professionally for most of my adult life), and I am definitely dancing with unicorns. I feel excited, motivated, determined to succeed. Your questions are provocative - I realize that I need to establish a better sense of focus, and I have to zero in on the issues that fuel my fire, and I there is a dramatic learning curve that I have yet to overcome, and I barely have 200 Twitter followers, and I probably have to write another 5 million blog posts before I find my true voice, and I have at least 7 trillion more hours to work on my blog and website and master the countless plugins and widgits that I can barely understand....phew....now I'm burned out. Thanks!

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

Ruth - The Freelance Writing Blog LOL - Heck, the unicorns sound a lot better now!

Feel the excitement and everything that goes along with it - and just keep these questions tucked away for when and if you ever need them.

P.S. DannyBrown once told me that it only took him a total of 4 million blog posts to find his voice - My response: Show Off! :=)

Di Mace | Word Swords 15 pts

Hi Frank, my blogging has defintely changed over six months and 70ish posts. And I do agree thats it''s work - requiring 360 degree focus. Around the 4-5mth mark I hit the typically dark, shadowy patch and had many self doubts about my writing, which was totally bizarre given that is my profession. But out of that self doubt I learnt a lot more about myself, my readers and also my voice. As mine is a blog that helps people turn their business writing from boring (just does the job) into something that's brilliant and works (that's the plan anyway)...so my tone varies from instructional to conversational, depending on the topic. However, after the black hole I changed my post and headline style and redefined my mojo with readers, and they have responded with a warmth and interest that was always there, but I hadn't quite managed to tease out before. Shame I hadn't figured it before....but that's the learning of blogging I suppose.

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

Di Mace | Word Swords Hi Di - thank you for coming by FBBB and for the insightful comment.

Blogging is often about self-reflection and you have tackled that well. That reflection has helped you understand your audience and develop your voice.

Those "black holes" can be liberating huh? :)

Great to see you here!

Marya | Writing Happiness 59 pts

Frank, my target audience is bloggers who have been blogging for more than 6 months, who need inspiration to go on, because this is the time when you have hit that stage where its just too easy to throw up your hands and give up. I almost did it and I know its really hard. Bloggers are conused with their purpose, they are not seeing much results and they almost join the majority of bloggers who leave, disgusted with everything. They are not really to pay hundreds of dollars for blog critiques, or monthly payments to blogging clubs. They write because they love it but find it really, really hard to gain likeminded readers. They just need some inspiration, some hope and lot of real advice. These are the people I am currently writing for. Does it make sense?

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

Marya | Writing Happiness It does make sense Marya - and you are spot on about how bloggers in that part of their timeline often feel.

Thanks for taking the time to stop by here and even more thanks for caring about bloggers and their needs!

Jane | Problogging Success 44 pts

Frank, awesome questions. Especially the third one is much ignored by many bloggers. As I can pretty much relate to the "urge" in making money, many bloggers fail to pay attention to the actual source of money - their targeted market. Excellent heads up.

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

Jane | Problogging Success Glad you enjoyed Jane!

Justicewordlaw 179 pts

Asking myself these questions on a consistent basis really gives me more leverage to write better content for my readers. When I understand WHO my target audience is then I understand how to write the content to present to them. Instead of writing what I feel they should know I let them tell me what I should research and explain to them better.

My latest conversation: Interview: Christian Hollingsworth Founder Of Smart Boy Designs

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

Justicewordlaw Hello Justice and nice to meet you. Many thanks for dropping by.

I just visited your site and like the feel and content (I'm an old affiliate and internet marketer from way back).

You method described above is definitely solid - let them influence your blogging. Especially with the wide open and sometimes cantankerous IM audience - letting them influence the process will do you well in your endeavors.

What topic do you find your IM audience wanting to hear the most about?

Justicewordlaw 179 pts

FrankDickinson Yeah, when I let them lead it makes everything on my part easier. The specific field that they have been wanting to know more about is increasing website traffic using multiple methods so what I actually did this summer was released an ebook called Traffic Over Drive and then offered that as resource. When it comes to internet marketing you need to let your audience guide you into the path of what they want you to teach them by the questions they ask you on social media.

My latest conversation: Interview: Christian Hollingsworth Founder Of Smart Boy Designs

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

Justicewordlaw Spot on!

NancyD68 685 pts

Before I even began blogging, I knew who my target audience was, what tone i wanted for my blog and pretty much what it wold be about. I keep my blog ()hopefully) very conversational. I talk about my past, and lessons I have learned.

I blog because I love it - writing is the one thing that keeps me sane.

My blog is very thought provoking (some days) and on other days it is just fun. i try to keep it balanced, but very human and always me.

My target readers are not just other bloggers, but people who need someone who has been where they are. I say my blog is about "hope and the pursuit of happiness" and when my readers sometimes leave me comments about how much inspiration they draw from my blog, I sometimes cry from gratitude.

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

NancyD68 Those kind of comments make it all worthwhile huh?

NancyD68 685 pts

FrankDickinsonoh yeah,. I had a few that moved me to tears. They really do make it all worthwhile.

TheJackB 1488 pts

NancyD68 I love reading posts that are written by people who have passion and love what they are doing.

My latest conversation: A Flickering Candle

NancyD68 685 pts

TheJackB exactly. I can tell right away when someone is just "phoning it in" and that pisses me off to no end.

chattyprof 28 pts

Just wanted to say as a 120-day old blogger how much I appreciated this advice! I particularly appreciated #3. I am a prof who is blogging about student-professor communication. Essentially, a twist on the very broad area of college success. There have been times that I'm tempted to write more generally about college; however, I keep reminding myself about my audience. Students and their parents can receive general college advice anywhere. I need to stay true to my spin. Thank you for this reminder! Ellen Bremen, M.A. @chattyprof http://chattyprof.blogspot.com

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

chattyprof Hey Ellen - great to meet you and glad this helped!

Staying true to your plan, voice and audience is the very place that many bloggers fall of the wagon - (so to speak) - keep to all of them as you continue to blog!

NoahG_Tidbits 6 pts

Keeping the passion alive for blogging can sometimes be muddied by events in our lives. You raise 3 important questions. It's important to focus on the positive aspects. Our support system, whether it's family, friends, or the blogging community, can be a great source of inspiration, motivation, and help us stay on track with blogging. Thanks for these great questions :-)

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

NoahG_Tidbits A pleasure Noah and spot on about needing a support system - it's vitally important to have.

laineyd7 7 pts

Great questions, Frank, and thanks for asking us so politely to get our act together! Creativity and spreading positivity are my "why" for blogging. As you outlined, right out of the gate I was gung ho, then realized it requires work. I can live with that....

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

laineyd7 Ha! It was a good morning - I can be anything but polite - just ask DannyBrown :-)

Hey - work that you enjoy - really isn't that big of a deal right?

SarahArrow 208 pts

Over the years I have from "instructional" to "conversational" and I only every write for my friends. When I write my posts, I visualise which one of them I am having a conversation with and write the post just for them. Those posts do far better than any other posts that I write.

I think you are wrong about blogging being work though... ;)

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

SarahArrow :-) refer to my response to laineyd7 above.

My favorite type of blogging and blogging voice = conversational!

TrafficColeman 38 pts

You must always understand why your blogging..and I hope its for making money and growing your community.

"Black Seo Guy "Signing Off"

FrankDickinson 358 pts moderator

TrafficColeman Knowing that why opens up so much for bloggers - moolah and community are definite

hey - thanks for stopping by - much appreciated.!

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